It was getting more and more tedious for him to breath. for him either his world was doomed or world had smothered him. Now he was confused who was he going to talk to. Pain had subsided under hopelessness and despair. All his world, his universe consisted of just a beautiful girl. The cute and innocent girl who was his ambition, his hope, his dream and his imaginations. But now the girl has left him ruined. Every part of his body ached badly, as if asking the reason of their existence, especially heart. Now, whom would the eyes see, whom would the ears listen with rapt attention, whom would his tongue praise. Hadn't he had a heart, it wouldn't have broken him. Her last words still echoed in his ears like they were compelling him to be more and more numb. Words that may change his life forever. Has his decisions deceived him or its result...He was thinking of the chronicles of mistakes. he started hating english language for having 2 words "IT'S OVER" . Oh! words spoken by a very sweet voiced, sweet looking girl....
hey readers i am not knowing how to end our article... If you have any sugessions please please let me know... soon....
Line between what we WANT and what we NEED
Yesterday, I was driving, and the radio went off for few seconds. I thought i should have an ipod. Then suddenly I realised that I have not used my Ipod in last 6 months. And then.... more things, handy cam in last 2 years, digital cam in last 2 months, DVD player in last 1 month and many more . Now I can say that I bought that handy cam just out of an impulse, I have used it just twice in 2 years.
So, whats wrong? when I look at my self and my friends I can see it everywhere. we are not happy with what we have but stressed and not happy for thigs we dont have. You have santro you want city, you have city you want skoda. just buying a phone you need another one. better laptop, faster cars, bigger TV, bigger house, more luxury, more money. I mean, examples are never ending. The point is does it really worth? do we ever think if we actually need them before we want them?
After this I was forced to think what I need and what I dont. May be I didnt need this handy cam or the Ipod or that DVD player. When I see my father back at home. He has simple BPL TV , he doesnt need 32" sony wall mount. he has cellphone worth 2500rs. Whenever I ask to him to replace, he saysits just the phone, I need thisjust to call and believe me he is much happier than me with those simple devices. th very reason that makes him happier is that he is doesnt want things in life that makes life luxurious, but he wants only those that makes life easier. It's very fine line between these two, but after lookin my fathers life closely,I got the point.
He needs a cell phone.... but not an expensive one.
Initialy I got lot of questions.
I am earning good, still I am not happy...why?
I have all luxury, still I am stressed....why?
I had great weekend, still I am feeling tired..why?
I met lot of people, I Thought over it and again and again, I still don't know if I got answer or not, but I figure out certain things. I realized that one thing that keeps us stresed is "stay connected syndrome. I realized that, at home i am logged in messenger, cheking mails, using social networking sites,and top of that my windows mobile not letting me disconnected. On the weekend itself, trying to avoid unwanted calls... and that is keeping my mind full of stress. I realized that I am spending far less than what I earn. Still I am stressed about money,salary and job.
May be some people call this approach as "not progressive attitude", but I want my life back. Ultimately it's a single life, a day gone is a day gone. I believe if I am not happy tonight, I wont be happy tomorrow morning. I finally realized that meeting friends, spending time with our beloved, spending time with ourselves is the most important thing. If on sunday, you are alone and have no body to talk with your all money, your luxury is wasted. May be cutting down your requirements, recalculating your goals in the light of today's happiness is a worthwhile thing to do.
May be selling your Santro and buying City on EMIs is not a good idea.
I believe putting your happiness ahead of your money is the choice we need to make...
-SOURCE
So, whats wrong? when I look at my self and my friends I can see it everywhere. we are not happy with what we have but stressed and not happy for thigs we dont have. You have santro you want city, you have city you want skoda. just buying a phone you need another one. better laptop, faster cars, bigger TV, bigger house, more luxury, more money. I mean, examples are never ending. The point is does it really worth? do we ever think if we actually need them before we want them?
After this I was forced to think what I need and what I dont. May be I didnt need this handy cam or the Ipod or that DVD player. When I see my father back at home. He has simple BPL TV , he doesnt need 32" sony wall mount. he has cellphone worth 2500rs. Whenever I ask to him to replace, he saysits just the phone, I need thisjust to call and believe me he is much happier than me with those simple devices. th very reason that makes him happier is that he is doesnt want things in life that makes life luxurious, but he wants only those that makes life easier. It's very fine line between these two, but after lookin my fathers life closely,I got the point.
He needs a cell phone.... but not an expensive one.
Initialy I got lot of questions.
I am earning good, still I am not happy...why?
I have all luxury, still I am stressed....why?
I had great weekend, still I am feeling tired..why?
I met lot of people, I Thought over it and again and again, I still don't know if I got answer or not, but I figure out certain things. I realized that one thing that keeps us stresed is "stay connected syndrome. I realized that, at home i am logged in messenger, cheking mails, using social networking sites,and top of that my windows mobile not letting me disconnected. On the weekend itself, trying to avoid unwanted calls... and that is keeping my mind full of stress. I realized that I am spending far less than what I earn. Still I am stressed about money,salary and job.
May be some people call this approach as "not progressive attitude", but I want my life back. Ultimately it's a single life, a day gone is a day gone. I believe if I am not happy tonight, I wont be happy tomorrow morning. I finally realized that meeting friends, spending time with our beloved, spending time with ourselves is the most important thing. If on sunday, you are alone and have no body to talk with your all money, your luxury is wasted. May be cutting down your requirements, recalculating your goals in the light of today's happiness is a worthwhile thing to do.
May be selling your Santro and buying City on EMIs is not a good idea.
I believe putting your happiness ahead of your money is the choice we need to make...
-SOURCE
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